Thursday, June 2, 2011

WHY THE HELL ARE YOU THINKING ABOUT ALLOWING DIVORCE HERE IN THE PHILIPPINES

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the sameperson.

I don't know why I am affected by this but I COMPLETELY DISAGREE WITH ALLOWING DIVORCE. I don't care if we are the only country in the whole universe who doesn't allow divorce but this has a reason behind it and I firmly believe that this is enough to keep it that way.

Maybe I was too inspired by my Theology 131 professor, Fr. Dacanay or something but I think that marriage is a very sacred and serious commitment to each other that no one can destroy it. FUCK YEH. But seriously, people get married because they want to spend the rest of their life with this other person and if divorce is possible, then people can just marry a person and not be serious because he/she knows that he can be divorced anyways if it didn't work out. I believe that the rationale of marriage can be ruined if divorce is okay here in the country.

I hate failed relationships okay. DO NOT GET MARRIED IF YOU'RE NOT 100% SURE WITH A PERSON. I know people who stay married until the day they die and I know that others can do this too. It's a matter of building the right relationship to this other person and letting each other grow in the relationship. SPIRITUAL GROWTH babyyy!

So yeh. To hell with those who wants divorce. I'm sorry but I just hate it when I hear it on the news and what other means would I vent out but here in my blog LOL.

3 comments:

Elai :)) said...

Same here. I don't agree with divorce. It's putting marriages into something like a game or whatever. :/

Yvan said...

I didn't know they were thinking of allowing that back there... I mean, isn't the majority of the country Catholic? It just seems off that divorce would be allowed on such a Catholic country.

Rae said...

First, I'd like to say that I love your blog and you get me engaged with many of your entries.

But, I'd have to disagree with you on this one. I agree with what you said: "DO NOT GET MARRIED IF YOU'RE NOT 100% SURE WITH A PERSON"

But some of us already made the wrong decision.

I want it to be available to those who are constantly battered everyday.

I want it to be available to those who really need it right now.

That being said, personally, I do not wish to get divorced (if I get married).

Also, if divorce is to be legalized, they should make the grounds VERY strict.

I'm catholic. But I try to respect those who are not catholic. That option should be available to them.